Sex Toys for Beginners

Sex toys are great fun. And if it is your first time choosing a sex toy for yourself or for your partner(s), or better yet, one you can use together, this page is where your journey starts. There are many ways to explore new ways to be intimate, by yourself, or with your lover(s) and sex toys are a great way to do so. If you’re a first-time toy explorer and you’re not sure rather you want clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation, anal stimulation, or other, trying different toys is a great way to discover what works for you best.
The intriguing thing with the right sex toy is learning so much about your body and what you and/or your partner(s) want and like. Sex toys can help a couple explore each other’s bodies and find new erogenous zones. Adding a vibrator to your safe space can help you also communicate better, first in terms of speed, pressure, patterns, position, angle, and all that can be a start to other conversations sliding into other areas of the sexual parts of the relationship.

The first decision will be between external stimulation and internal. The best advice we can give is to choose something that makes you feel comfortable and that won’t intimidate you. Another piece of advice is to use lube. And the last one, keep the toys clean and safe.

Sex Toys during the quarantine

We experienced it ourselves here among our community of readers in Feminist Toys and reports also show that sex toy sales were through the roof back when the COVID-19 quarantine first started mid-2020. All that makes a lot of sense since orgasms are one of the best forms of self-care and toys help you exploring orgasms at a whole new level. Following that statement, many people usually try and experience different toys before they find what makes them feel awesome.

Type of Vibrators

The first decision will be between external stimulation and internal. Internal vibrators are meant for penetration; some are designed specifically to stimulate the G-spot. External vibrators focus on the clit and labia but you can use them for nipple stimulation and all-over body massage, too. Some vibrators combine both types and give you both external and internal stimulation simultaneously. Anal vibrators are designed with a flared base, for safety. And last but not least, the penis vibrators (or cock rings). In the end, what most important is what you like and what you are in the mood for. So there are different shapes and sizes, from a mini vibrator to a finger-sized one to long and phallic and have bulbous or round, contoured-shaped tips for optimized stimulation. Below, you can find our picks that we recommend starting with as your first.

All toys that appear on this page are made with the most high-quality materials and are toxic-free.
All toys that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them all constantly and will update all reviews when available. We only include products that have been independently selected by us.