How to Turn a Breakup into Self-Indulgence
[Featured Pleasure Toys; LELO]
At the age of 39, you get to a stage in your life when you already know right from the start which relationship is going to work and which isn’t, for most. As a grown person, awoke adult, you know yourself in and out, you are aware of your flaws and your virtues and you fully embrace both. You have learned how to make your life the best you can for yourself and you work hard on making them even better. Even the struggling in difficult times, you have learned how to overcome them resiliently. You appreciate the purest connections, those who make intimate communication so precious. You indulge in the happy moments of appreciating your partner and the love you share while mutually being appreciated by them. Life for you is pretty damn good. You nod to agree, I would, too. But sometimes, once in a while, you fall into a rabbit hole… After all, we are all humans.
And here I am, a highly-functioning adult, single (ethical non-monogamous) and happy. I own and manage businesses, with a really impressive disruptive record behind and a great love for what I do. I am a problem solver by definition and title. I am also a romantic type of person… Ok let’s be honest, the extremely romantic type - the poet. I adore passion and great love stories and the excitement of meeting a person who still gives me butterflies even years after we first met. Unfortunately, these butterflies sometimes turn into shivers, and not in a good way. Well, sometimes, even creative, confident grown-ups who are living a free life, find themselves in a somewhat toxic relationship. The best advice in times like that is to get the hell out of them. So I have tried, for the last few months, on and off - again and again, until I had enough and just ended it. But, as efficient as I am, I made a plan - "how to stay away from toxicity" plan. Coincidently enough LELO recently had launched a new series of pleasure toys and sent us two of them to review: the SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise. A spoiler; two of the best toys I had ever tried.
Well, I am famous for taking limes and turning them into mojitos so I took my problem - getting over a bad breakup and decided to set myself a goal and turn that blues into a bliss. I created myself a "detox" plan and almost fully blocked my evenings' calendar to test the new toys while I recover and heal my broken heart and lift my spirit. I must admit, the plan was successful. While my beloved other partners understood my isolation mode and my need to get my emotional system back on track.
According to the plan, I decided to take the time, try the toys and learn their abilities, to master their functionalities and understand their added values. I decided, learning new toys’ optimal experience is a great project to concentrate on while trying to keep myself busy. Needless to say, I learned to admire the SONA 2 Cruise sonic sounds, during my second orgasm, it felt as it orchestrates for me. To be completely honest, it took me a few minutes to get the hang out of it. But once I did, I submitted myself to its uniqueness technology and fell in love with its neat sonar waves technique - Absolutely amazing!
A broken heart after the third tryout turned into an optimistic psyche, I gained my mojo back and felt intact again. I tried in the bath, too. I had used the word 'generous' to describe it the night after when I went to see a partner of mine. And then, I tried it with him, it was so intense I experienced out-of-body experience. We spent the night together, him, me the SONA 2 Cruise and SORAYA 2. Well, the week I gave myself to detox from a bad relationship, turned into evenings of self-celebration and orgasmic wonders. The SORAYA 2 is incredible, it can get as intense as I like it, the patterns it has just got me to a sensational state of mind. I love my solo-play to be long and intense. I love the feeling of almost flying when my body exquisitely savors in its pleasure. I adore the moment my body loses control within a wave of multi-orgasms, both SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise got me there.
So, if you are looking to gain your confidence back, or just learning to love your orgasmic self again, you should try LELO's new and enticing new toys, from my experience, SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise are the best bad relationship healers of them all.
SORAYA 2
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SONA 2 Cruise
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